Online dating and first date
I once talked to a woman for two months before we met.She was very nice and we got along well so I was willing to communicate but let her know I’d be talking to others while she gained comfort.Actually meeting the person you are talking to is one of the most important steps to online dating.
Your time is valuable and should be used to communicate with people truly interested in meeting you.I never went for phone conversations as a stepping stone from internet communication to meeting.I tried phone conversations early on but had a few bad experiences with “excessive calling” and one case where a girl took it as a personal offense every time I had to get off the phone.On my first date with my wife, I schedule a one hour date at a diner.
After the hour was over, I explained that I only extend the good dates and since ours was a great date asked if she would be up for miniature golf (she was).
Either way you approach it, they won’t mind if they are having a good time.