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Anybody trying to pursue you while with someone else is shady.
Decent people get their house in order – they don’t stock up on an emotional airbag.
This is an especially dangerous situation for Florence Nightingale’s.
Married Or Attached (FOCR) -The moment that you opt into one of these situations, you communicate the wrong things about yourself.
We don’t ask questions, clarify information, or assert boundaries – all things that should happen in an amber situation.
They play victim (FOCR) – Be careful of anybody that refuses to take any responsibility for their life and blames it on others – Be extra careful of people who when they experience a problem, don’t see their part in it. Not over the ex – (FOCR) – If they say they’re not over their ex, are recently broken up and hurting, are excessively angry with them (i.e not neutral), are hooking up with them, secretly trying to get back together with them, playing you off against each other, whatever – bow out. Controlling – Steer clear of anyone that wants to control you.
They’re an assclown – There’s ten very key signs that you’re with someone who means you and the relationship no good.
People who act with love, care, trust, and respect don’t do stuff like pressing the Reset Button, the Outrageous Principle, sneakily changing the goalposts of the relationship, the Dripfeed Manouver and telling lies/misrepresenting themselves. If you’re experiencing more than one of these ‘issues’, that’s a code red, especially if you have only recently become involved with them.
If they’re into shady stuff in the bedroom, it’s at the very least a code amber, or depending on the nature of it, a code red.
Don’t try and revolutionise the wheel and if you don’t want to have threeways, being watched by your neighbours, beaten etc – opt out.Many of us also see the perfect opportunity to be an emotional airbag or to fix, heal, help – we end up on a pedestal.